Stop expecting the people you live with to mind read. Get clear on expectations and create a more equal share of household labor with this House Rules Workbook.
This can lead to resentment that slowly builds over time. Emotional safety in relationships comes from consistent and honest communication. It’s the kind of hard work that's worth it, if you want to save a marriage, partnership, or friendship.
⛅️ A guided breath work suggestion before your house rules planning session.
📖 Self guided writing exercise to express gratitude + feedback with each other.
👫 20 prompted questions to ask each other to gain clarity around how to handle daily maintenance tasks in the kitchen, bathroom(s), living room, bedroom, and other shared rooms.
👩💻 Advice from a cleaning professional with 15 years of real home-cleaning experience
I'm a cleaning expert with 15 years of experience in the home cleaning industry. Together, with my cleaning team, I've cleaned thousands of homes and surfaces.
I implemented this system in my own home, by co-creating a set of ‘House Rules’ with my partner. It’s changed the way we communicate and set expectations around the delegation of household labor. It's a total game changer.